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Meister küsis oma õpilastelt: "Miks me karjume vihast? Miks inimesed karjuvad üksteise peale kui nad on endast väljas?"
Õpilased mõtlesid natuke, ja üks nendest ütles: "sest me kaotame oma rahu - sellepärast karjume". "Aga miks karjuda kui teine inimene on sinu kõrval? Kas pole võimalik rääkida temaga tasase häälega? Miks sa karjud inimese peale kui vihane oled?" Õpilased andsid ka teisi vastuseid, ent ükski ei rahuldanud meistrit.
Lõpuks ta selgitas:
"Kui kaks inimest on üksteise peale vihased, siis nende südamed distantseeruvad tugevalt. Et katta seda kaugust, peavad nad karjuma, et teineteist kuulda. Mida vihasemad nad on, seda valjemini nad peavad karjuma, et läbi selle suure distantsi üksteist kuulda.
Siis meister küsis:
"Mis juhtub kui kaks inimest armuvad? Nad ei karju üksteise peale vaid räägiva pehmelt - miks? Sest nende südamed on üksteisele väga lähedal. Distants nende vahel on väga väike..."
Ta lõpetas:
"Ja kui nad armastavad üksteist veel enam, mis juhtub? Nad ei suhtle, ainult sosistavad, ja saavad üksteisega veel lähedasemaks oma armastuses. Lõpuks pole neil vaja isegi enam sosistada, nad ainult vaatavad üksteist, ja see on kõik. Vot nii lähedased on kaks inimest, kes üksteist armastavad."
Paulo Coelho

6 best ways to heal a broken heart

According to The Daily News, Tyra Banks is coping with her recent split from her boyfriend of three years by jetting off to Bali à la Elizabeth Gilbert in Eat, Pray, Love for a “spiritual retreat.” Not everyone recovering from a breakup can seek solace on the other side of the world, so I put together a list of simple tips to help you feel like your normal, rad self again—with or without a passport.

1. Be Kind to Yourself
As much as you don’t want to brush off the Doritos crumbs and peel yourself off the couch to shower, just do it. Even better: leave the house. Schedule a massage, get a haircut or take a yoga class. While exercising may not be your favorite form of indulgence, the payoff in endorphins and self-esteem is worth the effort.

2. Make a List of His Most Annoying Traits
Is there some sort of default setting that resets itself the minute a guy breaks up with us where suddenly he’s the most insanely awesome person to ever walk the earth? So what if he rides a fixed gear with no hands or let your g-ma win at bridge? (He probably just sucked!) Jot down the ten things (no matter how minimal) that you let slide but really irked you. Keep it on hand to consult every time you catch yourself idealizing him.

3. Cut Off All Contact
This is very serious. This is what the delete button was made for. Block him on Facebook and remove all of the pics of you two on your profile. Do not call—ever. Unless you want him to give you back the stuff you left in his drawers, or you found out he won the lottery with the ticket you bought together, and he has your half, there is no good reason to communicate. So what if he misses you? Duh, of course he does! You wouldn’t pick at a scab or it would never heal (or, worse, leave a gross scar). If you need to talk, call anyone but him.

4. Get Quality Male Attention
Your girlfriends are killer when it comes to comforting you, taking you to movies and telling you over and over how you’re so much hotter and smarter than he deserves. However, there is something especially reassuring about it coming from a guy. Call up a friend or lean on a friend’s boyfriend for a little cheering up. It will remind you of what a great catch you are.

5. Obliterate All Traces
Clean house! And that means removing all letters, photos, or remnants of him from the vicinity. If you’re the sentimental type, you don’t HAVE to torch it with lighter fluid. Just put it in a shoe-box and throw it deep in your closet where you keep your third-grade scrapbook you never finished. By the time you uncover it in the next excavation, you’ll barely remember his name.

6. Take a Trip
Maybe you can’t make it to Bali without losing your job or defaulting on your student loans, but there are plenty of short jaunts you can take. Ask a friend or family member if you can come for a visit, or plan a day or weekend excursion that will get you out of town—and, more importantly, out of your head.

go get yourself a time out

I go out of the house for 10 minutes to take my brother to school and leave a mug full of coffee on the coffee table. I come back home to sit down and continue where I left off, but something is wrong. My coffee mug is droplessssssss( I swear I'm not going crazy cause I left it full and everyone else is still sleeping) and when I look around to see if there is anyone around who could have possibly done this.. the only one knowing what I'm thinking is the dog and she quietly goes to her nest without me even telling her anything...

my magic 22

Everything else in my life has felt wrong, but for the first time in 23 years i felt you and you didn’t feel wrong. Being with you felt so right like you have been the one ive been falling for when i said no to all the things that didn't fit me. Im not saying you’re the one i've ment to be together with forever, but you sure as hell are something different from what I’ve known so far. Baby you're a challenge, lets explore your talens..

new breathing

my heart just had a beat of new life. ambition. he makes me wanna move. i dont like it easy and he's not making it easy for me. i'm gonna enjoy the struggle. to struggle out from this piece of shit whats surrounding me at this moment. in my head and outside of it.

im gonna get a job. im gonna make money. im gonna work.

ticket § 700 euros.

money for renting a place § 500 euros

cash for food § 150 euros

alltogether §1450 euros

get from account monthly § 278.

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equals with 5.2 months of work.

bring it on baby, bring it on.

I'm sexy and I know it

“ Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels.

The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes.

The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them.

About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They invent. They imagine. They heal. They explore. They create. They inspire. They push the human race forward.

Maybe they have to be crazy.

How else can you stare at an empty canvas and see a work of art? Or sit in silence and hear a song that’s never been written? Or gaze at a red planet and see a laboratory on wheels?

We make tools for these kinds of people.

While some see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do. ”